Wednesday, 8 February 2017

Is Failure Your Friend or Foe? #Getinspired





 
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Straightaway I can tell you failure is not your enemy. Your real enemy is the FEAR of failure. Know the difference.
 
Until you fail, you will not truly appreciate success. As a teenager, I read my books night and day, and through God's grace, at age 16, I passed my GCSEs and gained entry into University.

But when I took my studies for granted in my first year at Uni, I failed two courses!! Voila! I got the shock of my life. Failing whipped my senses back to line. My response? I sat up and I got my reading mojo back and I graduated with honours.

You only remain a failure if you tell yourself you are a failure. When I fail, I tell myself I can succeed and I get back to trying again.

Giving up is the evidence you are a failure. As long as you KEEP TRYING, you are not a failure.

Failing at your marriage, your studies, going bankrupt, losing your children does not make you a failure, because you can have another go at anything and succeed.

When I went back to school decades later for my masters degree program, I failed an Accounting course. What struck me was the fact I did not realize, I did not know the basics of the course. I thought I did.

My response was to find an undergraduate Business student who I was told had a good understanding of Accounting. She taught me the basics and I grasped it well in a few sessions than what the lecturer taught me in a whole term. When I did a resit exam, I passed it. And I felt so fulfilled at overcoming such a huge challenge.

As an author, I'm not afraid to fail. As a result, I keep pushing boundaries. I often set my romance stories in countries I have never visited and my characters have jobs I know nothing about at the start. These days, you can learn anything by clicking a button to take you to the internet.

I only recently learned that Albert Einstein was such a slow learner, that it was suggested he switched studies from Physics to some other topics. Yet today, he is considered the father of atomic age.

7 TIPS

1. Take RISKS.

2. When you FAIL, it is not time to QUIT.

3. Failure is a BRIDGE to SUCCESS.

4. When you succeed, nobody worries about your failures.

5. Don't consider failing, your final destination, only a start to success.

6. Failure is not fatal, you can always begin again.

7. Believe me, you can overcome any challenge - distress, poverty, persecution, famine, nakedness, danger, hatred, heartbreak, financial meltdown, tribulation, divorce - through prayer, patience, kindness and by simply trying again.

"A righteous man may fall seven times and rise again." ~ Proverbs 24:16.

In summary, my word to you is, DON'T BE AFRAID OF FAILURE.

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