Thursday, 26 August 2010

Stop Nagging: 4 Ways to Ask #LoveAffair #Marriage

Welcome to Advice Bench!


Today's post is a plea from the male folks.

Some men have asked me to write clearly on my blog that the number one reason they look outside their marriage is the consistent nagging from their once loving wives.

They have told me that when their wives start to nag, they just want to find a hole large enough to crawl into, so they can find perfect peace.

And usually, the search for peace ends up being in another woman's arms!

"Better it is to live in the wilderness than to stay with a nagging (quarrelsome) woman" ~ Prov. 21:19.

Women, do we agree?

My advice:

1. Quit Nagging 

Nagging means being quarrelsome. When you ask in a commanding, aggressive or annoying tone, you are nagging.

When you constantly harass (nag), you cause your husband anxiety, worry and stress. To de-stress, he runs away from you.

You need to learn the art of asking to receive.

2. Pillow Talk

Learn to engage in the art of pillow talk. 

Pillow talk means having intimate chat in bed, before or after sex. It is more effective because there is touching involved.
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Keep all important conversation and decision making till your heads hit the pillow. 

During foreplay, in the middle of lovemaking or right after sex is when you put in major requests. That is what prostitutes and girlfriends do. They get married men to part with houses and cars. You can also get anything you want from your husband. But, you have to be of 'good behaviour'.

What stops married women from being so clever in getting their way? Wives, be wise.

3. Seduce Your Husband

If you want to ask your husband for a large sum of money, special gift for you, your children or family, or you want any favours from him, then SEDUCE him. 

Take a shower, spray a lovely fragrance, wear sexy lingerie, prepare his favourite dish, massage his head and feet, whisper sweet nothing in his ear, handle him like a woman would and then ask for anything.

4. Pray

Remember to ask God to grant you constant favour in your husband's eyes.

Pray that your breasts will always satisfy him.

Pray that he would always love you all the days of your lives, to the point where he will be intoxicated with your love. Prov. 5:19.


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You are deeply appreciated.

Love,
Stella


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Wednesday, 4 August 2010

How Long Does it Take a Woman to Get Dressed to Go out With Her Husband?

Welcome to Flirty & Feisty Romance Blog!
 

Today, I'm chatting about; How long it takes a woman to get dressed to go out with her husband?

This is a niggling question many husbands are asking?

They wonder and murmur, 'when I'm going out with my wife, she starts to dress up half an hour before me, but by the time I'm done kitting up twenty minutes later, yes 20 minutes later, my wife is still applying make-up.'

When he asks his wife how much longer she needs, she says 'five more minutes'.

Half an hour later, she's still applying lipstick.

How much longer do you still need to get ready? he asks his wife. She answers, 'just a little more time. Another five minutes'.

By this time, Mr. Husband is totally exasperated, angry, hooting his horn, or tapping his feet in frustration.

Twenty minutes later (which amounts to 30 + 20 + 30 + 20mins = 1hr 40minutes in reality) she finally comes out dressed.

Personally, it takes me at least an hour and a half to get showered and dressed, so says my charming husband. He said to me yesterday, 'how long does it take you to get dressed my dear wife?' I laughed heartily, because I have to endure a lengthy speech every time we have to go out.

Now (four years after the original post) I have finally learnt the key. I now start getting washed and dressed long before we have to go out. So, I still spend the same time (an hour and a half) but my husband gets less exasperated. Lol!

My question is simple, how long does it take you as a woman to get showered and dressed compared to your husband?

Readers are welcome to share their experience on this topic.

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Why Do Men Experience #Mid-life Crisis?

Welcome to Flirty & Feisty Romance Blog!
On today's post, I want to table the topic; Why do men experience mid-life crisis?

This is an issue one very good friend of mine asked me to post on her behalf.


She was wondering why all of a sudden a fully grown man; matured, with many years of blissful marital life with his wife, begins to acquire new tastes.
The aging fella starts hooking up young girls, learning how to ride motor bike, wearing earrings or growing unusually long hair at age 45!
Is there a more suitable description, other than mid-life crisis?

Does anyone else have any definition for this syndrome that affects middle-aged men?

This issue is giving many wives unending grief.

Readers are welcome to share their experience on this topic.

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